So you want to know how to initiate sex huh? Well it may not be too surprising but this is somewhat easier for females than males. Naturally, we’re a little more eager to act on your cues of lustful want. You’re reading this because either you don’t know how or you just plain forgot (yes, I said forgot) how to initiate sex. There could be several reasons for this:

1. Taboo. Society has long stigmatized the act of women initiating sex. For “proper society” the mating dance is an act performed by the male. For a woman to act on her urges and impulsively pursue sex is what, traditionally, makes her a slut or a whore. This taboo is still largely ingrained in the mentality of society. It exists in many of us even subconsciously. Come on folks. Lets wake up and smell the 21^st century. Also anything taboo can make things that much more exciting. Men are looking forward to and fantasizing about women hunting us down to fulfill their sexual urges.

2. You don’t have to. You’ve probably let the man in your life take on the responsibility of this job. It does come second nature to us and we do it so much why do you even need to bother. We’ll let you know when we want it and all you have to do is decide weather or not to comply. Well, this isn’t a “it’s his job to take out the trash” sort of thing. If you’re horny, act on it. Don’t save it for the next time we try to initiate sex.

3. Afraid of rejection. You’re afraid of the idea of being turned down and don’t want to take the blow to the ego. Because Men are generally “ready to go” more often that women, I think this is unsubstantiated fear. You won’t get rejected half as much as we do.

4. Not in the mood. You probably have a low libido or are not attracted to the man you’re with. For the low libido part you’re just lazy and greedy. Ok OK, before you start yelling at me let’s break this down. I’ll present you with two scenarios: