Married Sex - The Rules to a Happy Relationship
Now people don’t usually like it when you break a relationship down to the raw animalistic nature of things, but I’m going to do so anyway. We are, after all, another animal on this great planet. As a male, there is a very strong natural desire and instinct to stick our hard throbbing cock into a warm wet pussy and shoot a massive hot load into it. A lot of guys will get hard just reading that sentence. I believe it is natures form of birth control for a female to instinctively resist. Just think of all the male animals that have to do a mating call or dance in order to plant their seed. People are no different in this aspect, but what makes us special is that we have evolved to love one another. Sex for us in not merely to procreate but also for pleasure and as a way to express our love for one another. While we have developed these new traits to sex, that natural instinct still exists. That’s why the majority of the time the male is the one who initiates sex. Now… some women say “he tries to initiate sex so often I don’t get a chance, or, I don’t have to”. Well, that’s your fault. You have to head him off at the pass.
Never should you go to your spouse to simply get off. In doing so it loses its meaning. You’re using the other as a tool and they will sense it and feel it. Eventually your love making will lose it’s love and closeness. You should, however, go to your spouse to get them off. This will make them feel special as opposed to used. It shows how much you care about the others feelings and that you’d like to give them pleasure. A need for closeness and just simply sharing intimacy with your spouse should be the main factor driving the sex initiating process but doing it to simply give each other pleasure or to have fun is great too. Below is a set of simple rules that I feel are necessary to a have fun and happy sex life with your spouse.
His rules
- Share your fantasies and be open.
- Never perform a sexual act expecting to receive it in return. You’ll be sorely disappointed. Don’t think because you just gave the best head in the universe that you’ll get the same.
- Sometimes when she says no she really means yes. She wants you to act on your animal instincts and come and get it. But sometimes when she says no she really means no. If you get it wrong you’re in a world of shit :)
- Give her lots of back and foot rubs. Light some candles and use some massage oil while you’re at it.
- Back off. Sometimes she really is too tired or really does have a headache. Sometimes you gotta take care of things yourself. Get a pocket pussy.
- Experiment with new positions. I recommend getting the Kama Sutra and practice what you read.
- No you’re not going to make her cum every time.
- Get her a vibrator. There’s some nice ones here.
- She can be horny and not want to have sex. Weird isn’t it?
- She can “go without” a lot longer than you can. If you ever fuck up she’ll show you just how long.
- Let her know she’s attractive and you desire her.
- Go to your spouse with the intention of getting her off, not yourself.
- Have fun
Her rules
- Share your fantasies and be open.
- Sometimes you have to put him at the top of your “to do” list. No really, put him on your list. No one likes being put off.
- Never use sex as leverage.
- Experiment with new positions. I recommend getting the Kama Sutra and practice what you read.
- Get a vibrator. There’s some nice ones here.
- Don’t hold out 2 days in a row. If you deny him sex today don’t do it again tomorrow… and the next day. It WILL build resentment.
- Let him know when your horny.
- Sometimes when you’re not in the mood you can get there if you let him. That’s how fore play was invented.
- Every now and then give him a blow job that just came out of nowhere!
- Tell him what to do. Really we don’t know if you don’t tell us. We need some direction.
- Let him know he’s attractive and you desire him sexually.
- Go to your spouse with the intention of getting him off, not yourself.
- initiate sex half the time
- Have fun