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So you want a Fleshlight huh?
Fleshlight is a brand of male sex toys, or masturbators, that is designed and marketed by Interactive Life Forms (ILF) of Austin, TX. It was invented by Steve Shubin who was granted a pentent for the fleshlight in 1998 and it has quickly risen to the top selling male sex toy. The name Fleshlight is a play on the words flesh, derieved from the flesh-like feel of the masturbation sleeve, and flashlight. The outer case or housing of the masturbation sleeve is designed to look similar in appearance to a flashlight and when the top is screwed on the inner masturbation sleeve is completely concealed. The Original Fleshlight is available in two different colors (flesh & ice) with several different orifices, or openings. Among the currently available orifices are: stealth, mouth, lady (vagina), butt, and alien. Aside from the different colors and orifices, each fleshlight is available with a different inner texture, which withought going into detail, we will list here: original, super tight, ultra tight, wonder wave, speed bump, super ribbed, vortex, crystal (Ice only), alien (alien only) and STU.
Putting the Buzz Back into Marriage
Over the years we tried all the usual sexual positions, and a few I hadn't heard about before. We got to know each others bodies intimately, and our lovemaking almost always finished with both of us coming simultaneously. I knew I never wanted another man in my bed, but after twelve years of comfortable normal lovemaking, I realised that I wasn't horny very often. Realising this just made matters worse. Slowly, I started avoiding sex. It wasn't that I didn't want him, I just felt I was failing to excite him; so the damper that put on our sex life became almost unbearable at times.
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Evolved Novelties Releases Roulette Vibe
| Evolved Novelties Releases Roulette Vibe | |
| Evolved Novelties has rolled out the Roulette Edition High Roller vibrator, featuring a sleek European design and silicone composition. The Roulette is waterproof, scent-free and body safe. The vibe is manufactured in Europe with European parts and motor. It is multispeed with a flexible shaft and tip. | ![]() |
| If you’re looking for some action, then the Roulette is the odds on favorite to deliver complete satisfaction. With its sleek European design and silicone composition, the Roulette is 100% waterproof, Phthalate and scent free, and body safe. You’ll also be able to parlay your action with the Roulette’s flexible shaft and tip, and true multi speed motor. There’s no gamble here…the Roulette is a sensory evoking sure thing! | |
| View the Roulette Edition High Roller | |
| Other Vibes in the Roulette series are listed below | |
| Bet on Black | Croupier Pink |
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| Lucky 11 Purple | Lucky 13 Blue |
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| Roulette Red | Straight Up |
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| You can view Evolved Novelties information page on these products Here | |
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Married Sex - The Rules to a Happy Relationship
Now people don’t usually like it when you break a relationship down to the raw animalistic nature of things, but I’m going to do so anyway. We are, after all, another animal on this great planet. As a male, there is a very strong natural desire and instinct to stick our hard throbbing cock into a warm wet pussy and shoot a massive hot load into it. A lot of guys will get hard just reading that sentence. I believe it is natures form of birth control for a female to instinctively resist. Just think of all the male animals that have to do a mating call or dance in order to plant their seed. People are no different in this aspect, but what makes us special is that we have evolved to love one another. Sex for us in not merely to procreate but also for pleasure and as a way to express our love for one another. While we have developed these new traits to sex, that natural instinct still exists. That’s why the majority of the time the male is the one who initiates sex. Now… some women say “he tries to initiate sex so often I don’t get a chance, or, I don’t have to”. Well, that’s your fault. You have to head him off at the pass.
Never should you go to your spouse to simply get off. In doing so it loses its meaning. You’re using the other as a tool and they will sense it and feel it. Eventually your love making will lose it’s love and closeness. You should, however, go to your spouse to get them off. This will make them feel special as opposed to used. It shows how much you care about the others feelings and that you’d like to give them pleasure. A need for closeness and just simply sharing intimacy with your spouse should be the main factor driving the sex initiating process but doing it to simply give each other pleasure or to have fun is great too. Below is a set of simple rules that I feel are necessary to a have fun and happy sex life with your spouse.
Initiating Sex - For Her
So you want to know how to initiate sex huh? Well it may not be too surprising but this is somewhat easier for females than males. Naturally, we’re a little more eager to act on your cues of lustful want. You’re reading this because either you don’t know how or you just plain forgot (yes, I said forgot) how to initiate sex. There could be several reasons for this:
1. Taboo. Society has long stigmatized the act of women initiating sex. For “proper society” the mating dance is an act performed by the male. For a woman to act on her urges and impulsively pursue sex is what, traditionally, makes her a slut or a whore. This taboo is still largely ingrained in the mentality of society. It exists in many of us even subconsciously. Come on folks. Lets wake up and smell the 21st century. Also anything taboo can make things that much more exciting. Men are looking forward to and fantasizing about women hunting us down to fulfill their sexual urges.
2. You don’t have to. You’ve probably let the man in your life take on the responsibility of this job. It does come second nature to us and we do it so much why do you even need to bother. We’ll let you know when we want it and all you have to do is decide weather or not to comply. Well, this isn’t a “it’s his job to take out the trash” sort of thing. If you’re horny, act on it. Don’t save it for the next time we try to initiate sex.
3. Afraid of rejection. You’re afraid of the idea of being turned down and don’t want to take the blow to the ego. Because Men are generally “ready to go” more often that women, I think this is unsubstantiated fear. You won’t get rejected half as much as we do.
4. Not in the mood. You probably have a low libido or are not attracted to the man you’re with. For the low libido part you’re just lazy and greedy. Ok OK, before you start yelling at me let’s break this down. I’ll present you with two scenarios:






