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Putting the Buzz Back into Marriage

Sat, 28 Aug 2010 17:39:22 -0500

Although I'd only had one lover before I met my husband, I had always thought that the sex in our marriage was fine.

Over the years we tried all the usual sexual positions, and a few I hadn't heard about before. We got to know each others bodies intimately, and our lovemaking almost always finished with both of us coming simultaneously. I knew I never wanted another man in my bed, but after twelve years of comfortable normal lovemaking, I realised that I wasn't horny very often. Realising this just made matters worse. Slowly, I started avoiding sex. It wasn't that I didn't want him, I just felt I was failing to excite him; so the damper that put on our sex life became almost unbearable at times.

It was my birthday; and I knew he was planning something sexy.

I longed for the excitement of our old sex life back, but the thought of yet another lingerie set as a gift just turned me off again. Instead, we had a great dinner, and then he handed me my present. I opened the lavishly wrapped box to find the most enormous vibrator I'd ever seen. Actually, to be honest, I'd only seen pictures before, I'd never seen one for real. But this one was huge. It had a smooth plastic shape that reminded me of my first lipstick, and the dildo was a deep violet colour.

I wasn't sure what to say. I'd wondered about vibrators, but I hadn't been brave enough to ever try one before, and to be honest, I only had the vaguest idea about what I was supposed to do with it.

He saw my expression and immediately took charge. "Go upstairs and have a hot shower," he commanded. "I want you to shave off most of your pubic hair, and then I want to see you on that bed wrapped in a towel in five minutes. In the meantime, I'm going to get everything ready."

I did as he said. Feeling strangely excited and very naughty, I raced to the bathroom and turned the shower on hot until the heat made my skin glow. I did occasionally shave the hair from around my pussy, but it had been a while, and the sensation of having a freshly shaved cunt added extra excitement to my anticipation. When I emerged I wasn't sure what to expect; so I padded down the hall to the bedroom feeling like I was on a first date.

In the bedroom he'd spread a black satin sheet over the bed and had laid my new vibrator out on top of it.

He'd also set up our video camera on a new tripod, and was sitting beside it in a comfortable chair waiting for me. My heart felt as if it was squeezing against my chest, but that was nothing compared to the sensation from my pussy. Just the sight of the impromptu film set was making my clitoris swell in a way that I hadn't experienced in ages.

He laughed at my face. "I know it's your birthday," he said, "But you are going to have to do everything I tell you."

I raised my eyebrows in a puzzled expression.

"I promise, it will be great," he said.

I sat on the edge of the bed, not sure what he would want me to do, and he got settled behind the camera.

"Right" he directed, "Let's see how you like your new toy. First I want you to stroke yourself all over with your fingers."

I amazed myself as I realised that I needed very little encouragement.

"That's it, and now concentrate on your nipples. I want to see them really stand out."

Having the camera pointing at me was turning me on, and my nipples were already pink bullets standing out against my white skin. I knew that against the black satin sheet my fair skin and copper hair would look great; so I started to play to the camera, for a moment forgetting the dildo that lay beside me. I arched my back and parted my lips, doing what I imagined porn stars probably did. I lay back against the mounded pillows and ran my hands down my belly, through the neatly trimmed triangle of auburn hair at my crotch, Still surprised at my boldness, I opened my legs to the camera.

I snuck a peek at him, and, even though his eyes were on the tiny screen of the video camera, I could see him watching me intently. The bulge in his trousers was already pronounced.

"Want to join me?" I invited, expecting him to come and take over from here. "Oh no," he said. "You do this all by yourself. Time to try out the hardware."

Picking up the dildo for the first time I realised how cold it was, and stroked it over my breasts. The cold touch made my nipples stand up even further, and I again became aware of the way my pussy felt engorged. I turned the dial on the base of the vibrator, just a little, and let the head tickle my nipples.

This wasn't so bad. I could feel myself relaxing in front of his stare and decided to play along fully. I circled my breasts with the vibrator, and spiralled down slowly towards my crotch.

I had planned on inserting the vibrator and wriggling in emulation of one on one sex until I came, but as soon as the buzzing head touched my clitoris I realised that something quite different could happen. I'd never felt a sensation quite like this before, orgasms with him were soft and lingering. But the thrill that the slight touch of the vibrator against my throbbing clit produced was unlike anything I'd ever felt.

He smiled when he heard me gasp, and I could feel the tension in the room go up. I wanted to feel more of these new sensations and circled my hard node with the tip of the vibrator. Realising that my pussy was dripping wet by this time, I slid the vibrator into my cunt. Planning on wetting the end just a little, I was surprised to find myself thrusting the whole enormous thickness into myself. I had to know what I could do with this new toy, and turned up the dial to full. Pulling and pushing the thick smooth purple torpedo in and out of myself made me writhe, and I saw that he'd unzipped his pants to get at his own hard cock.

"You want me to join you now?" he croaked at me, his voice thick and hoarse with desire.

"No!" I responded. "You bought me this for my birthday. I get to play with it first."

The sensation of the dildo inside me was fun, but it gave none of the insistent excitement of rubbing it against my clit. I deliberately positioned myself so that the camera could get the full effect as I slid the dripping, slick length out of my cunt, aware that as it exited me it left me wide open to his gaze. I dragged the shivering length of it along one side of my pussy, and pressed it hard against my clitoris. The deep fast vibrations were triggering sensations that I'd never felt before, and I hadn't realised it was possible to feel these thrills so intensely. Wanting to prolong the moment, and also uncertain where these throbbing, almost stinging feelings would take me, I turned the dial down just a fraction on the vibrator and was amazed at the change in sensation that the deeper throbbing brought on.

Suddenly I felt as if the world was dissolving round me, my pelvis seemed to belong in another dimension, and I knew that if I had been standing up, my knees would have given way as a deep, liquid sensation washed over me. I felt as if I was riding a huge wave of pleasure, and though I wanted it to go on and on, I cried out in fear suspecting that I couldn't take it any more.

Just as I thought the sensation impossible to sustain, I felt my pussy and clitoris start to contract and spasm, as the biggest orgasm of my whole life swept over me. I was vaguely aware that I was thrashing on the bed, gasping and yelling. My dildo was still pressed into the side of my clit, as the deep, clenching shocks carried me away.

As I came back to myself, I looked at my husband. I found that he was staring at me open mouthed with his hands covered with his own cum. I wriggled over to make space for him on the bed, and he quickly shrugged off his clothes and lay down next to me.

"I never imagined that you'd react like this," he murmured. "I take it you liked your present!"

As I silenced him with a kiss, I realised the camera was till running and sighed, "It's the best present ever. Now I just need to find out what it will do to you!"

I started running the still steaming vibrator down his chest towards his balls. Hesitating briefly as I reached his navel, I started making small circles on his skin. I wanted to draw the moment out for him; so I took my time reaching the thick dark hair that surrounded his cock.

As the vibrator reached the base of his shaft I turned it right down to the lowest setting, teasing the skin with the lightest touch, and was delighted to see him spring almost immediately back into a full erection.

Leaning down, I played the vibrator over his shaft and balls whilst I flicked the very tip of his cock with my tongue. As he became even more engorged I turned up the dial--just a little at a time--and alternated between pressing the toy into the skin between his balls and cock, whilst working his tip with my tongue.

Flicking the head of his tool with my tongue, nipping lightly with my teeth, lifting and retracting his foreskin with my lips--these were all games we both knew and loved. But with the added intensity of the vibrator I knew he was getting closer to orgasm faster than ever before. I realized that it wasn't just him getting close, I too had become very horny and more than ready for my second major orgasm.

Turning the dial up to full power, the buzzing noise filled the room. I found myself thinking that the sound must be audible in the street. Realising that I really didn't care, I turned my full attention back to him. Loving the way he was laid back on the sheets, one arm raised partly covering his face, he breathed erratically. I shifted positions, as I wanted to look into his eyes as he came.

"Don't hide from the camera," I teased him. "Wriggle round so we're both in shot."

I arranged him so that we'd be visible to the camera, then started kissing and nibbling again. Switching back and forth between his rigid cock and his belly, his hips and arms, I sensed that he was getting really close. I swung a leg across him and impaled myself on his jutting length. For a second I couldn't breathe, the intensity of my orgasm just a few minutes ago had left me amazingly sensitive, and I could feel every inch of him with a clarity that I hadn't experienced before.

Slowly, to accustom myself to his width, I started riding him, loving the feeling of his slippery thickness inside of me.

Impatient now for another orgasm, and wanting to share with him a part of what I'd experienced earlier, I drove down hard. Bringing him deep inside my body, I then pushed the vibrator firmly against my clit so that it also made contact with his cock. Turning the dial to just that magic point, I could feel the sensations building rapidly inside me again. This time was rewarded by his gasps becoming moans of pleasure. He not only felt the effect of the vibrator on his own skin, but felt the transferred tremors as my cunt clenched and fluttered around him. I arched my back and continued to press hard with the vibrator.

"Any second now," I gasped, as I felt his balls tighten in readiness for his own orgasm.

That intense, liquid feeling started to roll over me again, weakening my knees and making my toes curl. Panting in unison, I felt him spurt heat inside of me just as the deep shocks turned my belly to fire. It made it feel as if my insides were trying to devour him.

Yanking away the vibrator, we clung together as the shudders kept coming, each one squeezing him a little further out of my clasp.

Realising we were stuck together with sweat and were clutching each other hard enough to leave marks, we broke apart. Trying to move gently, each of us lay curled side by side on the bed.

Some time later we managed to look at each other and I saw a new fire in his eyes. "Woman, you never cease to amaze me" he said, pulling me into a familiar embrace.

"Thats nothing," I said, smiling. "Just you wait until your next birthday, or tomorrow, whichever comes sooner!"

NEW Product materials and cleaning guide!

Sat, 28 Aug 2010 17:02:49 -0500

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Evolved Novelties Releases Roulette Vibe

Wed, 21 Jul 2010 14:52:35 -0500

Evolved Novelties Releases Roulette Vibe

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Who should own Playboy?

Mon, 19 Jul 2010 18:30:35 -0500

Hugh Hefner, Editor in chief of Playboy Enterprises is seeking to regain ownership of the empire he founded and take the company private once again. A class-action suit seeking an order to rescind the proposed acquisition alleges that Hugh�s bid of $5.50 a share is too low and that the company would be breaching its shareholder fiduciary duties if the adult giant is sold for an equivalent $185 million. Hugh Hefner currently owns about 70 percent of Playboy�s Class A shares and 28 percent of its Class B stock.

This suit coincided Thursday with an announcement of a larger offer ($25 Million to be exact) from FriendFinder Networks Inc. to purchase Playboy for $210 Million. FriendFinder Networks, which owns Penthouse, AdultFriendFinder and dozens of other social-networking and cam sites, has said during a CNBC interview that Hefner�s bid �dramatically� undervalues Playboy. And what is FriendFinder Networks plan for Playboy

"We�re buying a brand that has a global reach and has a very small online presence, and we�re experts at building our online communities," Bell told CNBC. "So our goal is to take that Playboy community and really expand it globally online.� "We believe that together we can create a 21st century media powerhouse and generate tremendous synergies through the combination of Playboy�s iconic brands and licensing engine with the Penthouse brands and the demonstrated technological innovations of FriendFinder Networks."

"We would propose an arrangement where we would partner with Mr. Hefner in our efforts to drive shareholder value," Bell said in a statement to Playboy's board. "We envision that following the completion of the proposed transaction, Mr. Hefner would retain editorial control of Playboy Magazine and would be entitled to reside in the Playboy Mansion."

"We would expect continuity of senior management through completion of the transactions contemplated by this proposal, and we are open to participation by continuing members of senior management on a going forward basis."

Being a magazine company in an internet age, Playboy Enterprises has fallen upon hard times. The company lost $13.7 million in the first quarter of last year and has been following a plan to restructure and transition to a brand management company. So far the transition plans have been working as Playboy saw a net loss of $1 Million the first quarter of this year

Married Sex - The Rules to a Happy Relationship

Thu, 10 Dec 2009 11:53:53 -0600

I have been happily married 9 years now. In observing other couples and relying on my own experiences I have come to realize that a huge proportion of the arguing is due to sex. Why is there so much fighting and bickering over something so simple? 9 out of 10 times it�s because he wants it more than she doesn�t. He wont stop bugging you for sex and she won�t stop turning him down. While you may feel he�s being pushy with sex you need to look at things from his perspective. Sex between you two is one of the largest symbols of your love for one another. So while you may see it as being pushy he sees it as fighting for something he loves.

Now people don�t usually like it when you break a relationship down to the raw animalistic nature of things, but I�m going to do so anyway. We are, after all, another animal on this great planet. As a male, there is a very strong natural desire and instinct to stick our hard throbbing cock into a warm wet pussy and shoot a massive hot load into it. A lot of guys will get hard just reading that sentence. I believe it is natures form of birth control for a female to instinctively resist. Just think of all the male animals that have to do a mating call or dance in order to plant their seed. People are no different in this aspect, but what makes us special is that we have evolved to love one another. Sex for us in not merely to procreate but also for pleasure and as a way to express our love for one another. While we have developed these new traits to sex, that natural instinct still exists. That�s why the majority of the time the male is the one who initiates sex. Now� some women say �he tries to initiate sex so often I don�t get a chance, or, I don�t have to�. Well, that�s your fault. You have to head him off at the pass.

Never should you go to your spouse to simply get off. In doing so it loses its meaning. You�re using the other as a tool and they will sense it and feel it. Eventually your love making will lose it�s love and closeness. You should, however, go to your spouse to get them off. This will make them feel special as opposed to used. It shows how much you care about the others feelings and that you�d like to give them pleasure. A need for closeness and just simply sharing intimacy with your spouse should be the main factor driving the sex initiating process but doing it to simply give each other pleasure or to have fun is great too. Below is a set of simple rules that I feel are necessary to a have fun and happy sex life with your spouse.

His rules

Share your fantasies and be open.
Never perform a sexual act expecting to receive it in return. You�ll be sorely disappointed. Don�t think because you just gave the best head in the universe that you�ll get the same.
Sometimes when she says no she really means yes. She wants you to act on your animal instincts and come and get it. But sometimes when she says no she really means no. If you get it wrong you�re in a world of shit :)
Give her lots of back and foot rubs. Light some candles and use some massage oil while you�re at it.
Back off. Sometimes she really is too tired or really does have a headache. Sometimes you gotta take care of things yourself. Get a pocket pussy.
Experiment with new positions. I recommend getting the Kama Sutra and practice what you read.
No you�re not going to make her cum every time.
Get her a vibrator. There�s some nice ones here.
She can be horny and not want to have sex. Weird isn�t it?
She can �go without� a lot longer than you can. If you ever fuck up she�ll show you just how long.
Let her know she�s attractive and you desire her.
Go to your spouse with the intention of getting her off, not yourself.
Have fun

Her rules

Share your fantasies and be open.
Sometimes you have to put him at the top of your �to do� list. No really, put him on your list. No one likes being put off.
Never use sex as leverage.
Experiment with new positions. I recommend getting the Kama Sutra and practice what you read.
Get a vibrator. There�s some nice ones here.
Don�t hold out 2 days in a row. If you deny him sex today don�t do it again tomorrow� and the next day. It WILL build resentment.
Let him know when your horny.
Sometimes when you�re not in the mood you can get there if you let him. That�s how fore play was invented.
Every now and then give him a blow job that just came out of nowhere!
Tell him what to do. Really we don�t know if you don�t tell us. We need some direction.
Let him know he�s attractive and you desire him sexually.
Go to your spouse with the intention of getting him off, not yourself.
initiate sex half the time
Have fun

Initiating Sex - For Her

Fri, 23 Oct 2009 15:47:25 -0500

So you want to know how to initiate sex huh? Well it may not be too surprising but this is somewhat easier for females than males. Naturally, we�re a little more eager to act on your cues of lustful want. You�re reading this because either you don�t know how or you just plain forgot (yes, I said forgot) how to initiate sex. There could be several reasons for this:

1. Taboo. Society has long stigmatized the act of women initiating sex. For �proper society� the mating dance is an act performed by the male. For a woman to act on her urges and impulsively pursue sex is what, traditionally, makes her a slut or a whore. This taboo is still largely ingrained in the mentality of society. It exists in many of us even subconsciously. Come on folks. Lets wake up and smell the 21^st century. Also anything taboo can make things that much more exciting. Men are looking forward to and fantasizing about women hunting us down to fulfill their sexual urges.

2. You don�t have to. You�ve probably let the man in your life take on the responsibility of this job. It does come second nature to us and we do it so much why do you even need to bother. We�ll let you know when we want it and all you have to do is decide weather or not to comply. Well, this isn�t a �it�s his job to take out the trash� sort of thing. If you�re horny, act on it. Don�t save it for the next time we try to initiate sex.

3. Afraid of rejection. You�re afraid of the idea of being turned down and don�t want to take the blow to the ego. Because Men are generally �ready to go� more often that women, I think this is unsubstantiated fear. You won�t get rejected half as much as we do.

4. Not in the mood. You probably have a low libido or are not attracted to the man you�re with. For the low libido part you�re just lazy and greedy. Ok OK, before you start yelling at me let�s break this down. I�ll present you with two scenarios:

SCENARIO: Your man�s trying to initiate sex and you�re not horny.

OUTCOME: You tell him NO and that you�re not in the mood. You roll over and go to sleep leaving him to fend for himself.

SCENARIO: You�re trying to initiate sex and your man is absolutely positively not horny.

OUTCOME: Either he lets you keep going with the sex initiating process until he gets horny or he gets you off by masturbating you or letting you sit on his face.

While not true 100% of the time, I believe the above two scenarios encompasses at least 90% of the �not in the mood� circumstances.

So now, who do you think is the greedy one in these two scenarios. UMHMM� As far as libido goes, the more you have sex, the more you want it. So I believe the reverse is also true. The less you have sex, the less you�ll want it.

Now knowing why you don�t initiate sex lets take a look at how to do it. As I said before women initiating sex is far easier and, I�d say, has a lot higher success rate than a man doing it.

Lets say that your man is sitting in front of the computer, again, playing a game. If you were to come up from behind and start giving a shoulder rub that would be great. If after a few minutes he was to turn around and see you were naked, that would be greater! If after a few minutes he doesn�t turn around then just sit in his lap and plant a big wet one on him.
You�re both in your PJ�s watching a movie. Hmmm, maybe a good porno from bedsideplaythings.com Put your head in his lap to watch. After a while start rubbing his cock thru his pants. Once it�s hard (may not take long) pull it out and give him a nice slow blowjob.
Get a good vibrator. You can purchase some of the best ones here. When your man comes home from work make sure he walks in on you playing with it. When he asks what your doing ask him to join you. Tell him how bad you�d like his dick in your mouth while you play with yourself.
Put him on your �to do� list. Literally. You have a to do list hanging from the fridge. We�d love to see our name on it. Anywhere will do.

These are just a few really easy ways for you to initiate sex with your man. Be goofy, get excited, and don�t be afraid to let loose.